Good Morning Readers,
The Lens-Artist Photo Challenge this week (here) has the theme of shadows and reflections in monochrome.
As I searched my photo archives, an outreach theme unfolded.
The first photo is of some confetti on the lawn. This confetti was leftover from my father-n-law’s funeral service last year. I shook out some of the tablecloths and those little circles lingered for a while. The leftover confetti brought many smiles. Sometimes I would catch a shimmering circle and i reflected on how sweet the funeral turned out. Other times, I saw a piece of confetti and then I would marvel at how my father-n-law had a decent final few years (truly a gift by the grace of God).
A short while after the funeral service for my FIL, I was on my way to visit my mother in Florida (I love those East Coast drives down I-95). On that particular trip, I met a lady at a rest area (photo is below) because she was sick and I offered to help. Our brief encounter was this simple human connecting. This is kind of funny now, but at first I was concerned that she was being trafficked.






We all blog for different reasons. Sometimes we take time off (or might stop for good) but let us all remember that blogging has an outreach element to it. Blogging can allow us to invest in others as we connect and contribute. That is good news. It should bring a smile to those lips!
Closing thought with an excerpt from an 1800’s author:
“I occasionally meet people who say to me, “I had many a pleasant hour, in my childhood, reading your Juvenile Miscellany; and now I am enjoying it over again, with my own little folks.”
Such remarks remind me that I have been a long time in the world; but if a few acknowledge me as the household friend of two generations, it is a pleasant assurance that I have not lived altogether in vain. When I was myself near the fairy-land of childhood, I used my pen for the pleasure of children; and now that I am traveling down the hill I was then ascending, I would fain give some words of consolation and cheer to my companions on the way. If the rays of my morning have helped to germinate seeds that ripened into flowers and fruit, I am grateful to Him, from whom all light and warmth proceeds.”
~ L. Maria Child from Looking Towards Sunset, 1881
Let us all find that “pleasant assurance” as we do what we do – so we will “not have lived altogether in vain.”
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- Also, just a reminder, the 2023 #Dickenschallenge is now underway. We invite you to read three noverllas from Dickens between 2/7 and 6/9. More info here.
Reflections for sure, Yvette. I’ve not come across the practise of scattering confetti at a funeral? I had thought it only used for weddings. Glad it brings back good memories.
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Hi Jo – well the confetti was not planned.
The funeral was a “celebration of life service” and the folks set up all these tables.
Then I brought in a my bin of supplies and on three tables – we had personal items and then the trees.
The bag of confetti was just in the bin and someone else actually sprinkled it on the three tables and it adde a nice touch.
Those tables also had my tablecloths and I just tossed them in the bin to wash later at home.
When I shook out the confetti – at first I was like- yuck – but then later it became a gift.
Because each time I saw a flicker of the confetti – it was a reminder as to how seet an ending that man ended up having.
Sorry for the long reply there – but all that to say the confetti was unplanned – I will see if I can find a photo of
how it looked on the tables —
hope you have a nice day restless Jo
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It’s a lovely thing to have happened. A celebration of a life ✨️ 💗
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What lovely reflections on encounters you met with kindness, Yvette. The final excerpt you shared is touching and inspiring.
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Norah, thanks so much for checking out this post and making it to the end of the post.
I think so many people need to be reminded of the impact they have – even though we will never fully see our influence –
because sometimes it just ripples in the invisible realm….
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Yes. We are constantly sending out ripples. It’s important to make sure they are good ones. 💖
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Hi Norah – so true – because some of the toxic folks can send out that nasty rippling that
drains the room and leaves us recovering
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We need to drown them in ripples of kindness.
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This is such a nice, kind post. The photos add so much to the story. I love that you approached the woman in the bathroom. We need more people like you.
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Hi Dan, well I am NOT in outreach mode all the time and sometimes feel guilty for not doing more – but life needs balance and
we do the best we can, right?
Also, I did not mention this in the post – but PART of the reason I checked on the lady was maybe because I have been primed so
much lately – there are SO many ads and posters to be on the lookout for trafficking
and I am not sure how effective all of them are – but I know that I was reached by the posters
so when I heard the vomiting and then what sounds like a phone call with distress – I just went back in
to double check –
and so I guess I am giving credit to awareness campaigns.
sigh
and it is sad that so much of this is going on…
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You’re like my wife, she notices people and tries to help whoever she can. My wife has been so good for my soul.
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The shadow on the door was my favorite and it made me chuckle. Gotta love the combination of the man holding the sign and your words about blogging. Well state, Yvette! Hope all is well and have a good week.
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Frank – thanks for your comment and I changed the flow of this post a few times – originally I had no words – then I had a Goethe quote – lol –
and somehow – while letting it simmer – this is what unfolded – and I give it a Cplus or a B for what I was going for – but could not spend any more time on it.
and cheers to taking “fun photos” like the shadow one.
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I love every word of this and the photos to mimic your thoughts.
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thank you so much
🙂
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Well said Yvette, your kindness comes shining through.
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well I hope this is not a bragging post – because there are many times I do not do outreach – and even the day we saw
John – I had no cash so no outreach that day. But we try to stay open and I guess that was the main message –
thanks for the visit, Tina
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Lovely, lovely, Yvette. Thoughts, quotes, images. I especially love your thoughts on why we blog. It is outreach to others from around the world. I love that.
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Hi Patti – thanks for your comment – and I know that saying blogging is outreach can have “layers” – like we do not want to forget we also have self-serving rewards – and then I know it can vary depending on someone’s “aim” for blogging – but usually the contributing has an outreach layer – especially with the lens-artist team and how you all came together to make a challenge (that is going strong at almost 240 weeks)
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Great post. Thought-provoking.
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thankd for checking it out, John
🙂
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bless you for checking on that woman, and all the other kindnesses you perform
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Hi Vj – thanks for your comment – I admit that It took effort to go back in and check on the woman –
but I am becoming more and more aware of the trafficking and dangers folks are in
and by the way –
this post is really in line with your recet Ghost and Shadows post – how cool
https://vjknutson.org/2023/02/07/ghosts-and-shadows/#comments
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I know…I love the synchronicity.
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spooky cool
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I loved how you reached out to help rather than just thinking about it as many do.
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I like the idea of confetti at a fueral. Somehow it speaks to me of a happy afterlife embarked upon by the person who has just passed.
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Wonderful reflections of kindness, Yvette! I love your take on, made me smile. 😊
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☀️😊🙏
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Helping that young woman was a wonderful gesture, Yvette. I was helped by a man at a rest area in 1977, and I still remember his kindness. He was a truck driver, I was having problems with a rental truck. Small gesture but I still remember.
I am thinking of joining the Dickens challenge. Is there any one novella that’s favored?
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Hi Dan – well firts of all – regarding the Dickens challenge – your question was key for me yesterday because I
realized that I was a little murky on my choice and I was confusing his short stories/essays with actual novellas.
And so after your comment- I made a post listing five folks can choose from – so thanks for the inspiration on that and I am sure it will help others too
and imagining you being helped with the renatl truck in ’77 is a sweet memory.
I imagine you being the fix-it guy and so picture you doing the helping – s it was nice to hear you can receive as well – haha!
and I have been helped countless times and have been truly blessed over the years.
and one of the most special outreaches for me was in 1993 when I was moving in the heat and
had some setbacks with a lock getting changed. This lady I barely knew, made me a huge glass of freshly
squeezed carrot juice. It revived my physically and her kindness warmed me and lifted me mentally.
and I think can do planned outreach and then also find ways to stay open –
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I have offer to help, and I have helped people many times, Yvette, but I think there’s always that knowledge of how good it felt to be helped that nudges you to help.
I saw the update on the challenge. I hope to read three, but I’ll let you know.
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Hi Dan! Well I might read two – but not sure – and I was just telling
Trent that I woke up feeling “lighter” when we changed it to one novella and not three
So I guess this year I want a “lighter” read and one novella might be just
what I need.
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Confetti during a funeral service really sounds like it was a celebration of life! Sorry for your loss but that is beautiful there were smiles through the tears with the confetti! A very cool collection of monochrome photos!
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Hi tierney, thanks for the comment and I have come to realize that celebration of life
ceremonies at a church can be more lively than the traditional funeral parlor ones – and then they
can also be so original – as was especially the case for this funeral.
the deceased was a collector of many things and so as we displayed some of the items – with the confetti
we also gave folks the option to take whatever they wanted (starting with the grandchildren and then friends could pick) we still have some valuable items to find a place for – but giving away so many items at the funeral worked out well.
thanks for the comment and hope your ankle is doing well today
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Thank you and that is really awesome how he was honored – made me smile 🙂
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🙂
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Shadows have always fascinated me, and you have collected an impressive lot here. I think them to be a part of another world, and they speak to us in silent gestures.
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Hi sorryless – I agree about the silent gestures and how some shadows can feel other worldly.
They had a similar theme in 2021 where I shared nature shadows – and so this time I approached it
with street shots and personal reflection. thanks for your visit and comment 🙂
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Beautiful and moving. I love the description of your connection with the young lady at the rest stop
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Thanks Nora, it was a unique experience for sure. Heart thing
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you have a heart of gold and deliver daily. Love your pictures and heart in blogging Yvette. Not sure why my link didn’t work as you are here in black and white ( love the monochrome) have been writing your heart out I see..
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Hi / I don’t love mono and feel that many photos lost their beauty – but I do think some images are better in monochrome but it is not my preference for sure
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I’m with you but there is an appreciation for it in it’s own right and that’s really true that some serve the purpose better than color. 💗💙💛🌈
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