Hello Everyone, The Lens-Artist Photo Challenge this week has the theme of “messages” – HERE
I was not sure how I wanted to join in. Then I started to scroll photos and found this first image, “Nope, NOT TODAY.” It has a personal message for me from July 2022 and so that is why I initially took the photo. However, it is also a message that many people use as a mantra. For example, those who have quit a habit – they take it one day at a time and say – “nope, not today” – I think we can also use this mantra to release a heavy vibe (let it go for today) and invite some joy in so we can be present and have appreciation for the simple (and important) things in life.

2) We try to keep lemons in the fridge at all times. They are so good for human health and have all thse unique properties for wellness. So last night, I was digging through the citrus drawer and realized we needed to go through some of the lemons. The diversity in lemons had a message for me. It was about human diversity and how we are all different.
We humans start off in this world different and then we are also at different life stages and phases. In Donna’s post this week, she mentioned age and embracing the years as they add up!
We sure need to hear that message more – and the old lemon in this image reminded me that it still had potential. Also, I saw Pauline (former model and ex-wife to Ric Ocasek of The Cars) in an interview and I just added her book, Filter, to my TBR list. I guess this book addresses the topic of life stages and embracing aging.
3) Speaking of books, I will NOT be reading the book “Spare” and I am disappointed that this displaced couple did not receive better advice before they made such a silly documentary on Netflix. I won’t share any more about that – but did want to share a message I found in a social media chat section – because it is how I felt abut reading the Spare book:
4) This next image is a sign for a dog that needs a new home.
We were grateful for our “easy going” dogs when we saw this flyer on a message board. This flyer also had me thinking about gratefulness and how “appreciation” is a crucial part of wellness.
And maybe part of the problem with Harry and M had to do with ONLY seeing what was wrong – perhaps with a spoiled mindset and with cognitive distortions – they only knitpicked the trivial while forgetting how much they had to be grateful for (whine, whine, whine).
I also heard that when past societies collapsed – the people were not grateful and part of the comfort and luxury they were smothered with had robbed them of gratitude and humility. Hmmmmm- is there a bigger message here?
5) I was waiting at a long red light and saw this tow truck with a powerful message with a tribute to a loved one. My heart went out for the person who experienced this loss and what a special memorial.
6) Cards with a message …
I took this photo of artsy greeting cards because these type of cards always remind me of my High School friend Kim. I will never forget the first time we saw these type of cards for sale and how we loved the thick textured paper, the art, and the messages.
I have mentioned Kim before. Her love for literature inspired me to like certain fiction. In fact, she loved many of those books mentioned in that social media chat image above (she esp. liked The Sun Also Rises)
In this cropped part of the photo of the greeting cards – two cards are highlighted.
“Don’t ever forget how special you are to me”
and
“You brighten my life.”
Those are two messages I want to close with.
First, do not forget to tell people how much you love them or how special they are. We do not need to overdo it, but are we forgetting to edify? Are we overlooking some of the verbal encouragement that can fill someone’s soul and just lift the mood?
And the bottom card says, “You brighten my life” – well maybe that is a reminder to us all to intentionally bring more joy into the world. I know some folks that “drain the room” with heaviness and it is never too late to think about our essence and what we bring to others.
We do not have to be robotic and we do not have to be something we are not – but maybe some folks need to be a little more mindful of how they dim and drain or how they can brighten and lift?
Thanks for reading and I appreciate your visit.
so many times, my blog connections really brighten my day!
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This is a wonderful interpretation of the challenge Yvette. I especially loved the section about your friend and the greeting cards – that was a great idea. Your positive message is the one I’ll keep from today’s reading!
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Thanks so much Tina
Your comment brought a smile
Hope you have a nice week ahead
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Yvette, I am so over H&M and their constant coverage by the media, coverage which they pretend to hate and then seek more of. They are no different from the average Hollywood celeb who cries about the evil media as their publicist is planting more stories. Feh!
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Paula
– thanks for saying all that because it was exactly what is going on! And I am kind of disappointed in Oprah (not that I know her but did feel a connection with her art) but here we have Oprah with her wellness talks and wisdom to offer
However – she never offered wisdom and advice to this H &M couple and instead interviewed the M and added to the silliness of their plight.
Anyhow – I think Dr Larry Crabb would call this the “problem of demanding-ness”
Sigh
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I have even less interest in Spare than I do in the royal family in general.
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Hahaha
I hear ya
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So true about those cards. I remember feeling the same way when I first discovered them.
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Hi Dawn- thanks for coming in about the cards – good memories
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I am glad you decided to join in, Yvette. I am certain, I can speak for others in saying: you leave us with a message to take away every time we visit your site. Today just happens to be more deliberate. Lemons offered a great analogy. H&M was interesting insight. I thought I might read the book, but who knows what is really true. I SO love greeting cards. I am glad you included them, and with you on the thick paper.
You are not alone, I know a few of those “drain the room” folks.
Thanks for joining. Outstanding examples that I am sure will inspire others. Thanks for the “lift”.
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Hi Donna
Thanks for your feedback (and for hosting this week)
And regarding the book – I heard it lacks depth and really had no message to inspire – and while I am not a memoir expert – I do believe there should be something of inspiration – but I heard it is constant complaining – unneeded stories about frost bite on his penis and a hot steamy love making session with M when he arrived after traveling spring his mother’s bday! Sigh!
This sophomoric content with complaints and lack of discretion shows an entitled mindset and lack of wisdom and substance
I know humans need to grow and we all have seasons of learning – but not sure what kind of counsel they had that led to all this rubbish
Sigh
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Hahaha. Well if I read it, I’ll give you my impressions here. Not sure I want to know about the frost bite🤣. And yes…I have witnessed first hand entitlement . Seasons of learning is where it’s at. That’s real life!
Always inspired by you, because it’s not all cushy and instead the reality of real life. thanks for the love. This journey is fun for me. I love seeing all the interpretations of “messages”.
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Hahaha – I guess he mentions that body part more than 10 times ??
And entitlement is a key word that keeps coming up
In the comments
– it makes me sad when folks seem
To only see the worse and then have victim mentality – not to say they didn’t have legit challenges – but where is the wisdom
And where is the wise advice from the seasoned ones?
And when I first read the theme of messages I was stumped!
Then it flowed and I look forward to following along with other posts that unfold this week!
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thanks. Yes…there have been some topics I that didn’t cross my mind. Making it extra fun.
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Hi, Yvette – There are such wonderful gems of wisdom in this post. Even though we are each diverse and different, we all share strong roots. Uplifting one another is the best option.
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Hi – thanks so much for your comment and I like how you noted that we share roots!
#unity
💛🙏
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Hi Yvette! Great post! And oh my! I too love those artsy, thick paper,sentimental cards Thanks for bringing back a memory. My friend and I could spend so long in the Hallmark store. 😊
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Hi joy roses
Wow – you really brought me back with the comment about the hallmark stores
Wow! Those were adventure places back in the day – 🙂
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Yes, they really were! 🥰
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Yvette, I love greeting cards too and during Covid, upped my sending of cards, both greeting cards and postcards. I’ve let up a bit but your post reminds me I want to keep going. The “Nope, not today” also reminds me that it’s okay to say no to some requests, to not do everything just because we feel we should or because someone asks. As for “Spare”, I have no interest and have lost the respect I had for Harry. “Nope, not today!”
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Hi Janet!
Thanks for the comment and agree with about saying No to requests (boundaries) and like your twist with No, Not Today on reading the book called Spare. From the few reviews I have heard about it – I know it is not for me either
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I don’t intend to read Spare either. I could care less about the “royalty.” I like to buy cards for people and they are rapidly becoming the “I care for you “variety over those jokes about aging. In this world we need more and more reminders of love.
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Hi Jt
Thanks for your comment and so true about how we need more messages about love
And a goal I have for this year is send some thank you cards – I used to send them all the time but it got away from us as the world became more digital and so I send a text or email
But I am hoping to send some nice thank you cards this year
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Great post – I love the positive messaging with the cards!
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Thanks so much Nora
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I just love all your messages, Yvette. In a perfect world, diversity would be appreciated and that lemon would fit right in. In a perfect world entitlement would not be an issue because there wouldn’t be any. But the world isn’t perfect. We just have to try to hold each other up and brighten someone’s day.
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Oh Anne! You provided a key word that I completely missed in my post – the word entitlement !
And yes – the world is truly imperfect and so we just learn and grow and then shake our head at some of the foolishness
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Lots of thoughts here, Yvette. I hope the dog found a good home.
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Hi Jaqui –
I hope the dog had found the right home too
And I am so happy to “see” you so thanks for dropping by
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Great great selections. Love the GoT reference.
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Thanks so much John
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Great messages!
We keep lemons in the frig all the time as well. I like your lemon with a bend. It’s unique among lemons. 😃 We put them in our tea and I use them in cooking especially with fish.
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Mmmmm – the lemon with your fish and with your tea sounds so good
Sadly, i forget to use the lemons and so last week I used our citrus juicer and made a bottle full of fresh lemon juice and will try and add it to some club soda (or just take a sip)
And that lemon with the bend in the photo reminded me of a fish!
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You could pour some of you fresh lemon juice into an ice cube tray and freeze them for recipes you make later.
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We keep lemons in the fridge all the time, too. I like their flavor, their healthful benefits, and their shade of yellow. All of which keep me feeling bright. Would be lovely if I could find a few greeting cards with them on, now that I think about it. 🍋
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Hi ally bean! You made such a great point about the color of lemons and all that uplifting beauty that yellow can bring
🍋🍋🍋
And now you know I’ll be on the lookout for a greeting card with lemons – if I find any I will be sure to grab a photo to share
Thanks for the comment
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I hope that dog is now on a couch next to his new family.
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Hi Tracy!
I hope so too!
And reading that ad reminded me of a dog we had in the 1990s who was so high maintenance – and so I really was flooded with gratefulness to not have that kind of stress!
And from the sound of the ad and the way they screen families – I bet that dog will get a really good fit for a hike !
Hope so
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A beautiful message Yvette!
Lemons in the fridge or on the counter do help us to sustain the harder days. Just add stevia. Love all of your pictures and I too just said that, “pick up the phone and let someone know you’re thinking of them! '”
I’m thinking of you.. i had to go look you up.. lol.
Hugs and love!~! 💗🤗
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Well thanks for looking up my blog!
And for the fun comment – and even though I don’t use stevia on lemons – I sure and grateful for some of the amazing products that have stevia so I don’t have to eat toxic sugar !
We really do live in a day and age when there are healthy options!
I will be over soon to check in and hope you have a great rest of the week
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Of course as I always would. Pucker up buttercup and save some stevia for me. I’ll be welcoming you when you see the way clear. Life is busy as always and rich! ❣️
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Happy New Year, Yvette, Your phrase “invite some joy” resonates with me…immediate goosebumps. And, yes, appreciate the simple things in life, which are often the important things. (I am a fan of GOT, re Arya’s quote)
I am also a big fan of lemons and you are right, how the lemons differ, yet I incorporate all into my diet.
Yvette, I love everything about how you concluded your post. The highlighted two messages…how we do not know whether today is the last day we can tell someone how special they are…and whether someone truly needs to hear this message today.
I often visit your site and read your blog, Yvette. 💕I have ‘paused’ writing posts for personal reasons. I still have many blogging friends. Thank you for brightening and lifting my day.💞 Erica
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Hi there my friend eric-Erika!
Your comment was wonderful to read and I was just sharing another GOT reference with Norah Colvin
– because her recent flash fiction reminded me of the scene with Arya and Ed Sheeran
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=r9OoIQUTPaQ
Anyhow – thanks for keeping my blog in your rounds when you make it back to the blogosphere!
And hopefully one of the reasons you are not blogging is because you are doing “other” types of writing (and enjoying camping and time with the hubs – time with grandkids, time with friends – and reading etc!
Anyhow – wishing you a great day ☀️🙂
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Hi Yvette, I recall how thrilled Ed Sheeran was to be part of the show. He has an amazing voice – great clip. 6 degrees of Kevin Bacon: one of my patients was the Mom … her son was working as a personal trainer to the cast while they were filming overseas.😀
I read your post about Shanna – I recall previous conversations – and how her essence lingers – a beautiful reminder and message for all of us. We will stay connected, Yvette. ❤️
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How cool that your friend’s son worked as a trainer – I bet that is fun work –
And thanks for checking on the Shanna Memorial post – it is an older post I made sticky for this year- and perhaps next year I will be able to make a YouTube video with the footage from shanna in 1995? It is on 8mm tape still!
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I look forward to seeing the footage from Shanna, albeit a challenge from 8mm. I am inspired on how to live life and gain perspective. I am sending you a personal note via your contact page. xo
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It’s interesting when you find messages like this through your day. I’ve journaled them, thinking it would be interesting to look back at my frame of mind one day. My problem is that I never look back, but it’s still fun to do. Nice job.
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Hi Dan!
I also journal “some” of the messages and insights and I don’t look back as much as I would like to!
However – I am saving some of the journals and will look back at some point
So maybe you could do that too- hang on to your journals or writings and then when the time is right – sift through and see what you have and then maybe you can do something with them —
Hmmm
Anyhow – thanks so much for your visit and comment
🙂
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I think it would be helpful to look back at them. They’re all saved, so it’s just a matter of doing it.
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Yes, it is a matter of being in the mood and then taking the time – and the ones I have looked back on have been mixed – a lot of blah and generic writing (weather – sleep quality – schedule stuff, etc) but sometimes I find a gem of a poem or insightful comment about society or faith or life – and so because of that I am keeping my old journals for a little while to go thru later – also, Helen Chen is a photo blogger who shared that she regretted burning all of her journals – and so that makes me want to pause before I toss them as well
Anyhow – nice chatting with you
Dan, 🙂
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I know exactly what you mean by the feeling of blah and weather talk. It sets a little bit of the mood, I guess. I have to look for Helen’s blog.
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Dan, I think Helen stopped blogging a few years ago (many kids her) but I do remember that she shared about regretting the loss of her journals and that is one thing that stopped me from tossing all of mine –
I will keep them until I am 100% certain I am done
And hope you do the same …
😉
I will see if I can find a link to her blog
And hope your weekend is going well
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Thanks
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Terrific post. I am totally with you in your reaction to ‘Spare’. I will not be reading it and at this point groan, tsk, or make another sound of disgust, whenever I see a photo of him/her.
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Hello! Thanks so much for checking out this post and also – I had to smile at the “sound of disgust” part because it baffles me that they didn’t receive better advice!
Anyhow – hope
You are having a nice start to February! 🌸🌺🌸🌺
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I love the lemons diversity message!
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Thanks so muc, Christy!
So nice to “see” you and hope 2023 is off to a great start for you and your family
🙂☀️
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Thank you, Y! Happy 2023 to you and yours 💗
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[Sorry … I am woefully behind in Reader so catching up.] You had many thoughts here and we do need some brightening of spirits in this everlasting Winter season. Lemons could do the trick for sure. It was sad to see the pink towtruck in memory of someone special. This is a man who does care if other men joke about a pink, i.e. “girly-looking truck” … he puts his heart out, not on his sleeve, but on his truck. You’re right about being kinder to people … don’t wait until they are gone to do or say special things to them and then say “I shoulda/coulda/woulda” – then it’s too late.
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Hi Linda!
Thanks for the comment and hope your weekend is going well!
The winter feels like it is going fast for me – but it feels extra cold this week! Brrrrrrr
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Hi Yvette. Very frosty yesterday and 43 today. Mother Nature is clearly conflicted or confused … take your pick!
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A belated Happy New year my friend. I hope end of year was pleasant with happy reunions.
Cheers
Brian
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Thanks Brian and I look forward to connecting in 2023!
Glad to be blog friends
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Me too. Y’all be good naw. (O’er there yonder…) 😉
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I love this post. There’s so much to take away. The message inspired by the lemons and that precious dog, among others. I think I’ll read it again. 🙂
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Oh thanks so much without Wenzler!
☀️😊a reread is a compliment
Hope your weekend is going well
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