Hello readers, this week’s Lens-Artist challenge invites us to share photos that show close and closer
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I will start with this 100+ year old afghan (made by someone in the Priorhouse family line). We sent to a thrift store last week. It was one of the MANY things my Father-n-law left behind. The other afghan he had hung onto, of sunflowers, is in this post here. I guess he kept them when his father passed away in the 1990s.


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My Father-n-law was also a trumpet player and so when I saw this trumpet street art last week, it reminded me of him. He was a professional trumpet player before he went into insurance. I need to add that my Father-n-law was not the nicest man (he had a personality disorder and was a productive alcoholic – if that makes sense) – anyhow, he also had some good attributes and his faith really bloomed in the last season of his life. So that was nice.
After he passed away – I was reminded of how differently we view someone when they are gone.
Perspective sure shifts – just like this close and closer theme has allowed us to show shifting perspectives.
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Check out these old irons. Does anyone even iron anymore? We rarely do…. and if so, it is with a modern iron.
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Also in keeping with the old theme for this post, there is an old hotel in our area called The Jefferson. I have blogged about it before and on a recent visit, I stood as close as I could to get this photo.
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Ending this post with this shot of an old car. Perhaps not as old as the hotel, the afghan, or the irons, but used up and done.
Closer version of the car. I just realized that this post seems to also have a theme of rust-colored items – or some nice browns.
That rusty inner wheel reminded me (yet again) that EVERYTHING HAS A LIFE SPAN. And when we remember that it can help us shift our perspective.
And with that in mind, I would like to share some encouragement I red this morning while scrolling the reader. This is another reason why I love blogging -we just never know what folks will be posting and this was morning treat from Chet over at the Built to Lead (BTL) blog in a post called “Simple, Not Easy.”
“The most read post on the BTL blog is this one from 2008. It comes courtesy of Tolstoy and his worthy read titled Family Happiness.
Time is not changing, but many sense they have less.
You and I are not an amalgamation of our successes and fails – we are so much more.
Far too many of us seem to be working better than we’re living.
I hope you enjoy this short snippet.
“I have lived through much, and now I think I have found what is needed for happiness. A quiet secluded life in the country, with the possibility of being useful to people to whom it is easy to do good, and who are not accustomed to have it done to them…”
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- Care to join in with the photo challenge this week? Go to https://pilotfishblog.com
- Care to read a short story? A Priorhouse short story was featured this month at “Always Write” and HERE is the link.
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That afghan is a stunning piece of work. I can’t imagine how long it took to create it. (I know from experience that much simpler ones take a lot of time. 😀) The ceiling of the Jefferson is stunning. What gorgeous glass work. You’ve done a great job at getting “close and closer” to reveal the beauty in the details. Glad you joined us, Yvette.
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Thanks you Patti. You are so right about the time that goes into afghans (and quilts) and this one did tug at my heart, but I know I would never use it and hopefully someone bought it at the thrift store (and the thrift store made a few bucks from it – hmm)
And each time I go to the Jefferson I focus on something different there because it has so much to offer
hope you have a nice rest of your weekend
🙂
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What a beautiful afghan! The colors really pop. Wish I could have seen the sunflower one. Those antique irons are are something to behold. I can remember my mother had one when I was growing up passed down from a family member. The trumpet one was cool! 💜❣️
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I will show to the sunflower afghan BRB
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Hopefully that afghan will find a happy home! I’ve always been trying to part with family treasures.
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Hi JT! They sure are treasures and hopefully the note with the afghan will help it find the right home – even if it only seeks for five dollars it is better than the landfill
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Interesting viewpoints!
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Thanks so much
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I love the bright colors in the afghan. The ceiling in the Jefferson Hotel is stunning. It is hard to photograph a huge area like that. I enjoyed the trumpet public art. Our guest this week is a trumpeter. Wonderful post, Yvette, and thanks for the link back to Story Chat!
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Thank you for your comment – and you are right – it can be challenging getting ceiling shots – hope your guests this week get a lot of Ingrao refreshment !
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We had a good time and got to see lots of new sights even to us. Have a great hump day, Yvette. 🙂
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Fabulous photos Yvette. Love the rug 🙂
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Thanks BB- it does look like a rug!
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Something that has been in the family that long must be hard to give away, though I can understand. Actually, glad the homeless man didn’t want the beer! Five bucks was much better for him. Never professional, but I was a trumpet player for many years, and actually quite good – I think you can hear it when I do keyboard solos. Sorry your father in law had so many problems though.
I hope your weekend is going well 🙂
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Thanks Trent – and my FIL was absent for most of the time and so not that bad and you know – others fill in gaps for support and all that – but we were shocked when he chose to move by us – but had grace and it worked out.
And you are a multitalented musician indeed!!
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The afghan is gorgeous. Nice photos for this challenge.
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Thank you
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Welcome
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The afghan is beautiful and it looks like it withstood the test of time really well too. He-Man’s Grandmother used to make quilts and knit blankets. I used the ones she gave us and wore out two of her knitted quit blankets, but have one little lap quilt left that I treasure and use from time to time. I’m glad you found a new home for the ones you found.
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Thanks for your comment and the little Lap quilt you have left sounds like a treasure to keep and maybe to not use anymore (half kidding but maybe it needs to be preserved and passed down)
And now that you mention it – the afghans my FIL took over from his mother in the 1990s were in good condition – and i
Truly do hope they are both being valued by someone..,,
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I’ve got it earmarked to give to my daughter, but she had two boys and this one is more girly with pink tea roses and a bright pink ruffle around it.
However, that may change since our son is getting married this summer and they say they’re hoping to have at least one child of their own so if they get a girl I’m likely to give it her, and you know my soon to be d-i-l’s favorite color in the world is PINK!
Prayers needed as they’re both 40 now! 😍💗
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Well done Yvette – along with others I found the Jefferson glass incredibly beautiful. Interestingly that hotel has the same owner as our resort here on Kiawah. I also found the afghan story really sad. You’re very clever to keep the photo rather than the item as it’s a great way to keep a memory without clutter! I hope it finds a good home.
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Hi Tina! Interesting about the same owners….
And i did take two months to fully decide about the afghan and my husband “hates” all afghans (whether a family heirloom or bot!) And he would have been okay with my keeping it – but was glad when I chose to “release it”
Hahaha
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The colors in that afghan are so vibrant! I would take an eclectic room to pull it off as a main object of affection. The Jefferson place might be able to pull it off in a frame in the hallway, though? 🤔 Great photos you shared for the prompt. I always love how you frame your street photography. I’m with you on wanting to downsize more and more each day. I just need to convince my dubious minimalist side and take a vacation day or two to kick start myself! LOL ;-).
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Hi Shelley! I know you are always pondering the downsizing and keeping stuff (and your recent toilet paper rolls was a fun read) also / I am curious as to where you will take the “dubious minimalist” topic….
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Thanks, Yvette. I’m going to focus a bit more on my ‘dm’ stuff. The pandemic has brought out the worst of that thinking…I’m determined to take on the battle with it and make good compromises. 😉
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That cross stitch work is exquisite 😀 😀
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Thanks Cee
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I love those Afgans and I would have kept them. I love antiques and old things and have a room full of antique dolls and books, but I’m always happy to add other bits and bobs.
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Wow – the room full of antiques (dolls and books) sounds rich and enriching – and i say if you have the space and like the feel – then keep the goodies !!
And perhaps they can inspire some of your next stories!!
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That afghan is SO funky! It tends to grow on you the longer you look at it. I used to have quite the collection of textiles when I was married. It was mostly to buy and sell but we kept quite a few (which we later did end up selling).
Sad irons too, we came across our fair share. And stained glass and rusty treasures.
I relate to this post completely.
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Hi M
That is interesting that you guys bought and sold textiles (and antiques I assume) and if I was a a collector of things I would maybe have a bunch of those irons – I do have one as a door stop and another one (just the base) in garage – and need to get rid of it.
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That’s how I got a fire hydrant, which I actually didn’t want. My sister bought it and then regretted having done so, so I bought if from her. Sold it pretty quickly, which is a good thing because I really didn’t want to schlep it around.
We came across everything, from slot machines to vintage soda machines, spinning wheels to traffic lights. It was fun stuff.
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Hi – I still have a photo of that fire hydrant of yours – and plan to do a hydrant post when the time is right – and I did not realize you sold it. And reading that you came across a lot – well it sure can be tempting to collect such cool items and probably hard to pass up.
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For me, it was soda machines. I had a handful of them at one point. But now, not a single one. Oh well, it was a lot of fun while it lasted.
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I loved your story! It ties in wonderfully with the idea of your post here, of shifting perspectives. Cheers!
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Well thanks for reading – and Kennedy – I didn’t even realize it does fit today’s post theme – and perhaps these are themes I am drawn to often.
Thanks for reading
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The afghan is interesting Yvette. The bright colors and design stand out, a focal point of the afghan.
Looking at it, you just know that someone put a lot of work into creating it. The iron reminded me of the token in the board game Monopoly – same type if I recall correctly. It’s been years since I played Monopoly. “Everything has a life span.” I must remember those words when I retire and will begin to pitch things out which I know I’ll never use. Right now, I hesitate to use what little time off I have on doing such tasks, though I really need to work on decluttering. I will weed out with a vengeance once my time is my own!
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Hi Linda – you are wise to watch your time now because sorting stuff can feel like a black hole – and so even in retirement you might be drawing boundaries – haha
The funny thing about the afghans (this one and the sunflower one) is to imagine my FIL keeping them with all of his musical instruments and art. They really meant something to him but now they are in new hands
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Yes, I have plans for what I want to do and NEED to do and what I will get done remains to be seen. But I must declutter when I get time. I have a difficult time believing two adults and a bird also lived here … where have I gone wrong. Right now, things are bad at work, lots of friction and I breathe a sigh of relief when each day is gone, so it is difficult to tie myself down with big projects on weekends. I feel like I’ve earned my “me time” more than ever these days. Yes, hopefully someone may not treasure them as your FIL did, but will treat them respectfully and are appreciative of the hard work that went into them.
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Hi Linda – I am not sure he treasured the stuff he kept as so much of it seemed out of sight out of mind – not judging – but a few folks in the family were asking “Why would he keep those?” –
anyhow, sorry there has been some friction at work – ugh! And so it is definitely good to decompress on weekends
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Yes, well that expression “to each his own” … everyone has a different view of “treasure” … yes, decompress is a good way to put it. By Monday night I’ve had enough sometimes.
The weather on the weekends has not been stellar for months, except for a few times, so I hope we are in for a good Spring so there is something to look forward to.
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Wow. GREAT selections. Yes, BEAUTIFUL afghan. Sad about it. M’lady and I have been sorting ours and family keepsakes for years. The younger people don’t want the old stuff, despite the love and care that went into it. So it goes, truly ‘dust to dust’ for everything someday. LOVE the stained glass (always a fave) in the Jefferson.
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Hi – thanks so much for your comment – and I was hoping that maybe later on a future grandchild might want some of the goodies but don’t want to hang on to the stuff to find out –
And best wishes and you both continue to sort through these treasures!
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What a beautiful afghan! The colours is just amazing! So much work goes into making something like that!
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Hi Aletta – I liked the colors too!
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The rugs are beautiful. It’s difficult to give things away at times, but sometimes we just have to. It’s better they are put to use than stored in boxes, forgotten, laying in wait for someone else to dispose of in the future. I have been a collector of books all my life. I love books. I love owning them. But I have started giving them away. I figure if another reader can love them as much as I do, that’s a good thing. What’s the point of them gathering dust on my shelves. I used to think that, when I had time, I’d reread my favourites. There’s no such thing as having time. I’ve learned that much is true.
I remember my mum having irons like those you shared. 🙂
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Hi Norah – your mother’s irons would have made good door stops (I use an old iron for a door that likes to close on its own)
And I loved your comment.
Not at all surprised to hear that a seasoned teacher had a hearty book collection – i mean anyone can have a book collection but it does seem like they are the tool of the trade for teachers! Also the intention to dive into them is a good one but I can see why it is not possible to always do – whether for time or for mood.
And putting the books back in circulation (rather then collecting dust) sounds like a good plan! But I know it can still be hard!
I am down to three bookshelves!
Well I have a few boxes in the attic that could fill one more medium shelf – and most of those are Children’s books that bring back a flood of memories from the early years of parenting or from teaching – and then I have around 110 Louis L’moure softcovers! I try to take one with me on trips.
Anyhow – I love how you said this a that giving items away is better than stored in boxes, forgotten, laying in wait for someone else to dispose of in the future.”
So true – and actually – I had to toss a quilt that we stored for ten years – we didn’t store it properly and so I really was not in the mood to store two afghans (with wool thread) that nobody wanted.
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It is tough to part with books. Sometimes I go looking for some and I can’t find them. It’s like parting with an old friend and not being able to catch up.
I didn’t know of Louis L’moure so had to look him up. So much left to read. sigh
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The tapestry is lovely. I’m guessing it was difficult to part with. We are building a much smaller home than our previous one so difficult decisions had to be made. It’s a good idea that you have started early
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Hi Nora – it wasn’t that hard to part ways with it – not like the art paintings my children made (and don’t want) I am not sure how much to keep!
And best wishes as you decide what to keep.
I know what helps us is choosing the right place to donate – I drive a little farther to go to a place that values almost everything (especially antiques or old stuff that is eclectic and maybe not highly sought after).
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also, it can be so freeing to have extra space or to just to be bogged down with stuff.
So I expect you will feel pretty awesome once you move into the new place – it can be freeing
have you seen “The Minimalists: Less Is Now” documentary on Netflix? If not, it might be good to view – it will help you part ways with things (or George Carlin’s skit on stuff is another good view):
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Thanks for the viewing suggestion!!
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Loved your Afghan and the ceiling – and I do hope the Afghan found a lovely owner who will treasure it.
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Hi Leya – the thrift store I donated it to is near a college and so maybe a student got it!
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I bet!
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Sorry about your father-in-law, whatever his personal issues were, it’s always a loss when someone goes away…
(I liked the irons. My sister-in-law has a few that come form her grandma… Heavy things…)
Ye be good naw ye hear? 😉
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Hahaha / okay Bama!
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It is very Alabama, right? Funny thing is “others” can’r really tell the difference between Southern accents. I can more or less tell Lew-zee-ana from Miss’sipi from Bama. Geawgia is still a bit different… 😉 (Ah miss half the time but it’s all raght.)
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Hi! I can tell a handful of accent differences – probably not as in tune with them as you are / but can always pick up on western New York and Wisconsin kind of accents – the way they say “you’s guys” rather than the southern y’all!
But all this southern differences I don’t know – except to say Jacksonville Florida is one of the few places in that state that had a southern draw (IMO) and here in Richmond Va we have some folks who have a bit of a southern accent (close to the Georgia one I think) where fire is far! Hahaha
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“Far”. Lol.
Nuyawkers are easy to spot. Never came across anyone form Wisconsin.
But accents are funny. For Latin Americans “Mexicans have an accent.” But inside Mexico? There’s at least a dozen accents…
actually in Alabama, people say that North Alabama accent is different from Mo-beele, and from Montgomery…
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oh language and definitely morning and fully alive 0 and Victor Hugo even notes that this is a special part of why we need slang (and I guess accents) because it allows language to become personal and to stay alive and culturally morph!
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Well, I’m a you guy’zer from Wisconsin (and Minnesota) ; )
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LOL. Now I know. We’ll have to have a coffee some day so I can hear.
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Awesome, some day we three will head to the DF, and we can have coffee. 🙂
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That is awesome but did you notice some stress add the “s” to the you
And so it is you’s guys and not just you guys!
And I love Minne-snow-da!!
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You’s guys is more Chicago and Tony Soprano 😉 Minne-snow-da! Love it – I’m going to use that!
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Yeah- I can feel
The Chicago slang with that
– have a good day
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You too, thanks. 🙂
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Good perspectives. What to give away and when.
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Thanks – that was exactly what I was trying to say
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