WPC- Refraction – mon torero

The WPC is refraction this week, and so to join in, I had some help from Señor Torero.

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Refraction 1 ( amo a mi torero)

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Refraction 2 (amar los colores)

Today is also Singing Saturday over on Love Happy Notes…


and so to join in on her challenge, I would like to share a Switchfoot song. This band reminds me of two bloggin’ friends: K from Vastly Curious – and T from Other Side of the Trees! :)

We just watched a show about Switchfoot’s Fading West album and the Goo Goo dolls singer, John Rzeznik, was interviewed about Swicthfoot and what a small world it felt like.

Anyhow, here is probably my favorite song from Goo Goo Dolls – you know, because it is Singing Saturday after all.

Have a nice weekend – and to see more refraction pictures- go HERE.

Fiesta after Siesta (Dreamy and Throwback Thursday)

For Throwback Thursday and for the “Dreamy” weekly photo challenge, I started with this chandelier photo taken ten years ago at the Jefferson Hotel in RVA. The clouds are so dreamy… dreamy chandelier from jefferson hotel I also stumbled on this old photo from ten years ago – and I had to laugh – because the kid’s are pretending to be asleep and the whole feel of the photo is “dreamy” to me.

I can’t recall all of the details of this day – but we had friends over and after swimming, doing stuff, and having lunch – the children had to “take siesta before they could have fiesta” – And isn’t this important life wisdom to live by… “Fiesta after Siesta!” ha! Part of our fiesta this day included these cookies: cookies for fiesta after siesta These cookies in particular will always remind me of that summer because in early June of that year, there was a HUGE sale on some all natural cookie mix KITS, which included the gelatin gummies and frosting too.  So we made shortbread cookies a lot that summer – and this is my favorite kind of baking – just add butter and eggs – and then find the right pan. (Side note, knowing what I now know about refined sugar – well I would not have bought these kits and would instead have maybe had chocolate covered fruit – coconut caramel goodies –  or something with some “sweet and nutrition”  ….)

Anyhow, this last photo also says “dreamy” to me too. It’s the one bracelet I really like, which was a gift, and it says mother in seven different languages.

dreamy mother bracelet

I took this photo last spring, when the bracelet was just sitting on the sideboard. The way it was sitting there caught my eye and it gave me a little smile. :)

Well that’s it – I hope you find something “little” to smile about today. And remember – fiesta after siesta! ~ If you have time and want to check out some other “dreamy” photos, go HERE. ~

Light and Shadow (Rembrandt – Henri Nouwen)

Happy Tuesday everyone!

I wanted to share a few quotes from Henri Nouwen:

“Being is more important than doing”

“The heart is more important than the mind”

“To give and receive love is at the center of humanity”

“It is better to be together than to be alone”

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The Return of the Prodigal Son by Rembrandt, 1669


I finished reading Henri Nouwen’s book, The Return of the Prodigal Son, this past weekend and when David Crowder’s “Shadows” song came on, well it all lined up so well I had to use it in a slideshow:

Normally I do NOT like religious art, especially the excessive paintings from the Baroque period (just not my preference), but Nouwen’s writing gave me a new appreciation for The Prodigal Son –  the painting and the story.

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In his book, Henri Nouwen reflects on and critiques Rembrandt’s painting of the lost son who comes home – and he uses the story to discuss changes in both Rembrandt’s transformed life and his own.

 “When Rembrandt painted the Prodigal, he had lived a life marked by great self-confidence, success, and fame, followed by many painful losses, disappointments, and failures.

Through it all he had moved from the exterior light to the interior light, from the portrayal of external events to the portrayal of the inner meanings, from a life full of things and people to a life more marked by solitude and silence.

With age, Rembrandt grew more and more interior and still. It was a spiritual homecoming.” (p. 64)

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Rembrandt’s 1636 etching of the prodigal son


Nouwen shares about his own homecoming:

“The return was also from my complaining, comparing, resentful self to my true self that is free to give and receive love.

And even though there have been, and undoubtedly will continue to be, many setbacks, it brought me to the beginning of the freedom to live my own life and die my own death.

The return of the “Father from whom all fatherhood takes its name” allows me to let my dad be no less than the good, loving, but limited human being he is, and to let my heavenly Father be the God whose unlimited, unconditional love melts away all resentments and anger and makes me free to love beyond the need to please of find approval.” (p 83)

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Rembrandt’s 1642 drawing of the prodigal son

Nouwen also shares that the Father of the returning son carries a new and mysterious light by which he sees.

“It is an inner light, deeply hidden, but radiating on all pervasive tender beauty. 

This inner light, however, had remained hidden for a long time. For many years it remained unreachable for Rembrandt. Only gradually and through much anguish did he come to know that light within himself, and through himself, and in those he painted. Before being like the father, Rembrandt was for a long time like the proud young man who ‘got together everything he had and left for a distant country where he squandered his money.” (p 30)

Although Rembrandt would never become completely free of debt and debtors, in his early fifties he was able to find a modicum of peace.” 

Rosenberg writes that as Rembrandt aged and was sculpted through hard times, “he began to regard man and nature with an even more penetrating eye, no longer distracted by outward splendor or theatrical display.” 

Have a great day – and remember – we all go through hard times and each of us will have different things to endure and work through – but quite often the setbacks and hard times are a gift – because they can humble us and allow us to see — and appreciate — what really matters!

Beautiful Waterfront- Buffalo, NY- (JMW)

For my walk with Jo this week I am taking you on a little stroll along the beautiful waterfront in Buffalo, New York.

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These photos were taken in 2007, when my husband and I took a sunset stroll in downtown Buffalo.

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Buffalo is famous for snow, steel and chicken wings…

but it is also noted for some other things!

like gorgeous sunsets with pink in the sky…

and a waterfront area that is warm in July

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walk with jo in buffalo

The origin of the name Buffalo is from the French words beau fleuve, meaning beautiful river.

And there really ARE days in this town when you do not shiver….

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There are other theories about the origin of the name, but I like beautiful river because it highlights the great water access, as well as the important role that Lake Erie played in the early development of this city; in fact, the major streets all radiate from the downtown waterfront area – see the maps below:

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Buffalo’s waterfront is also home to several decommissioned US Naval vessels, which are part of The Buffalo and Erie County Naval & Military Park.

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And for the last part of the walk with Jo – in good ol’ Buffalo -

I have to share a story from this quick summer before I go-

One of the days we took a group of kids to this playground that was in a “decent” neighborhood.

We noticed there was some graffiti in a few spots, but overall things looked pretty good…

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Seven of the cousins were playing that day- while we were chatting with grandma in the shade.

Suddenly, we heard my nephew “sounding out” some inappropriate terms.  We did not realize that there was swear word graffiti up on the slide and once we realized it – we left!  It was time for lunch anyway, but this photo reminds me of how much we laughed that day – because my nephew was confused – he was a new reader at the time and he was completely bewildered as he was sounding out a few of the words… and we were shocked by what we heard….


In closing my walk with Jo this week –  HERE is a song by Buffalo’s Goo Goo Doll’s – called Broadway- and this street is one of those major arteries that radiates from downtown.  I also bought my first car from a used auto lot that was on the corner of Broadway and Bailey (that lot has gone for a long time and there is now Tim Horton’s coffee shop there)

For more walks with Jo – check out her blog HERE, where this week Jo takes us to visit Studley Royal.

Also, did you know there is another city with crazy weather that can also be quite beautiful too?  Well Jill takes us to Wellington, the capital of New Zealand – where I guess it rains horizontally and has the “sort of weather poets fill anthologies with…” more HERE

Have a great day!

early morning nature…

To join in with Kan’s “joy is” challenge this week, I had to share some bird sounds from out back.  The bird chirps were a pleasant sound when I opened the door to let in some early morning autumn air….

Here is what I heard:

Check out “all about birds” for identifying bird sounds -


The early morning chirps reminded me of a few other blog challenges this week:

There is a nature theme over at “lensandpensebysally” -

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This sweet visitor was captured thanks to having quick access to an iPhone

and this single leaf connects to NW frame of Mind’s One World Project:

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go HERE for more 10 a.m. shots


and lastly, to join in on Cee’s Wednesday Which Way challenge, here are two phone photos I grabbed while walking part of Richmond’s pipeline trail (more about this nature trail here)

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On part of the pipeline trail in RVA, you actually walk right on top of a pipe!

Have a great Wednesday and get out there and enjoy some nature….

WPC: Signs (Jazz band and Speedy)

I went to the store to buy some Aztec clay

different bulk clays for sale

I saw “street sign” furniture along the way

table made out of recycled signs tables made from old signs


Then I met Speedy, who was willing to say “Hey…”


While some musicians were wrapping up informal play…

musicians out to play


here is a short video I made:


I hope you have a nice day-

and click here to see other “signs” today.






pink petunia gift…

I have really enjoyed the colorful pictures going around for JNW’s fuchsia photo challenge this week.

As we were leaving the house to take my son to get his cast taken off of his arm today, I looked down at the front path and realized I had some garden flowers that would fit right into this pink challenge!  Here is a bit of the beauty:

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I like perennials because they come back every year and I have had the Sedum Autumn Joy since 2008. However, sometimes with Virginia’s mild winters – annuals will also come back each year – and the fuchsia Petunia (bottom photo) was a gift of a flower to me this year because this little ol’ annual showed up in a very barren area of the garden in early summer.


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When this little pink petunia started growing in this bare spot, it reminded me that sometimes we just do not know what is going on beneath the surface.

Sometimes many great things are happening when things seem rather plain!

So remember… we should NOT be moved by what we see on the surface because many times growth – or change – is not always visible to the naked eye!


Have a nice day!

For more fuchsia entries, or to join in with your own photos, go here.

Street Photos from Charlottesville, VA

On Friday (9/26) – we went to Charlottesville, VA for the day. After rainy and damp weather all week, the sunny blue skies in this lovely mountain town were an extra treat.

First, here is the video I put together – the song is called “Songbird” by Forty Foot Echo:

Now – a Dozen Street Shots:

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Street Portrait #1 Street Musician

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Street Portrait #2: A young lady named Hope – look how her beauty matches the flowers!

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Street Portrait #3 – I was taking some doors photos – and when I saw this employee standing to the side of this large doorway, his coordinated yellow shirt called to me. The line of his shoulders works with the line in the doorway and his apron works with other rectangles. I also like the 3 little lights above him and the fold of the paper in his hands seems to work with the lines in other areas.

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Street Portrait #4 -I like this shot for a few reasons and one has to do with roles. The silhouette art features a woman with a child in tow – and if you look to the center, we have a working woman with briefcase in tow. Love the contrast and both roles are great!

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Street Portrait #5 – This dude was just way cool.

It was a little sad during our visit because there are signs everywhere for the missing college student Hanna Graham. For those that do not know about this story, Hannah went missing on 9-13 -14 –  she was out partying and decided to walk home alone.  She got lost on the way and was sending texts to her friends.  Video surveillance was able to help track the last person she was with (big Brother has perks) and there has been an arrest as well. We are all praying for her.


However, with all this media coverage about this case I wish someone would be sending a “wake-up” call message to viewers.  I know it may not be the best time because the focus is on finding Hannah and trying to get tips coming in…

But listen up, this is another example of how drinking impairs abilities and can leave us vulnerable.  This is likely another example of what is called a “crime of opportunity” and it is sad!   I have a few more thoughts to share about alcohol, but for now I just want to remind all of us to drink responsibly – or how about not at all and let the cells in your body get a healthy break.

But seriously – college kids and teens need to be reminded of the dangers of getting wasted.

And if you are using alcohol to cope with – well start thinking about other ways of tackling issues.  I know it is not easy and habits and patterns get set, but there are resources out there and it starts with becoming aware of how you are coping.  Alcohol in itself is not necessarily bad, but when you use it for coping it robs you of real growth and at some point you will have to sober up and deal with things.  Nobody ever said: “Yeah, I had a lot of problems and then I started drinking everyday and everything got better.

I am not trying to judge your alcohol consumption – I am just saying think about it! And monitor all you do with wisdom –  because you’ll know when things are not in balance – and wellness is rooted in awareness.


On Friday, I also met a few more folks – including the Charlottesville Police Chief Timothy Longo.

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Street Portrait #6 – Timothy Longo police chief of Charlottesville, VA He is a passionate dude!

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Street Portrait #7: This is a camera guy from D.C. – also in town to get footage on the Hannah Graham case. I ended up talking with the D.C. news anchor, and after we parted ways I realized that I should have taken her photo too. Oh well…

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Street Portrait #8 – A couple and their dog. We ran into them a few times during the day..

Street Portrait #9 -Man on the phone - look at those windows Dawn!

Street Portrait #9 -Man on the phone -(look at those windows Dawn)!

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Street Portrait #10A – These two ladies were some of my favorite people from the day.

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Street Portrait #10B – This is my favorite picture from the day. I like it because it captures the essence of Charlottesville! We have the cool employee making healthy guac – we have a Mexican lady (her words) who is smooth and classy and casual. Then, the lady to the right has the “I love NY” t-shirt on- and the pumpkins all over highlight the “joy” of the Fall season upon us!


Street Portrait #11 Taking a shot of this Asian door I realized a window duster was there too.

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Looking Down at a pumpkin latte and Asian dumplings for Lunch! Check out the free sample of CALM on the table.  I recently bought a huge bottle of CALM and it was on back order – which shows how much people love it.  I highly suggest everyone try this awesome product. There is a reason that it has won awards for the last 3 years -because it is a highly absorbable magnesium and most people in our culture have insufficient magnesium levels, which leads to all kinds of body imbalance. Try some…

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Street Portrait #12 – 3 guys walking the brick path in charming Charlottesville, VA.

This is linked to Dawn’s Lingering Look at windows week #39, Kan’s Moment of Joy week #9, and Debbie’s Look Up Look Down Week week 58

For more Monday Walks with Jo – go HERE where Restless Jo wanders Santa Luzia with her camera in tow.

triple shot friday – wallace stevens poetry and pics

Happy Friday Everyone! For triple shot Friday – I have some poems to share – but first – I dedicate this song to a fellow blogger who is going through a rough patch – and so this song is for you amigo:


And for some reason, the poetry of Wallace Stevens keeps coming up this week – my son had to write about the Anecdote of the Jar, someone I admire said that Of Mere Being was one of their top five poems, and then when I read the Death of a Soldier (more here) it was just obvious of what I had to share – so I also picked 3 pictures form my digital library to go with each one.


Anecdote of the Jar by Wallace Stevens

I placed a jar in Tennessee,
And round it was, upon a hill.
It made the slovenly wilderness
Surround that hill.

The wilderness rose up to it,
And sprawled around, no longer wild.
The jar was round upon the ground
And tall and of a port in air.

It took dominion everywhere.
The jar was gray and bare.
It did not give of bird or bush,
Like nothing else in Tennessee.


Do you see these jars of tomato sauce?  Well they are filled with “red gold” from my sister’s husband’s family who live in Niagara Falls, Canada.  They LOVE to share!



Of Mere Being by Wallace Stevens

The palm at the end of the mind,
Beyond the last thought, rises
In the bronze decor,

A gold-feathered bird
Sings in the palm, without human meaning,
Without human feeling, a foreign song.

You know then that it is not the reason
That makes us happy or unhappy.
The bird sings. Its feathers shine.

The palm stands on the edge of space.
The wind moves slowly in the branches.
The bird’s fire-fangled feathers dangle down.

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Some palms from Cocoa Beach, FL – Feb. 2014

~~~ #3

The Death of a Soldier by Wallace Stevens

Life contracts and death is expected,
As in a season of autumn.
The soldier falls.

He does not become a three-days personage.
Imposing his separation,
Calling for pomp.

Death is absolute and without memorial,
As in a season of autumn,
When the wind stops,

When the wind stops and, over the heavens,
The clouds go, nevertheless,
In their direction.

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This is an old picture of one of my brothers – – I love you and thanks for your service my friend, thanks!

The solider poem is what led to this post – partly because the words match the feel of the week – with the autumn air blowing in and then Stevens’ human perspective on time – it just got me thinking about the brevity of life (again) and then I was filled with gratefulness to fallen soldiers, to active soldiers now, and to all the Vets that have served!



credit: G’s Pacific Paratrooper’s blog:


Wallace Stevens

photo credit - http://russellboyle.wordpress.com/

photo credit -Russell Boyle

“Though he did not receive widespread recognition until late in his life, Wallace Stevens—whose work is known for its imagination, whimsy, and relation to both the English Romantics and French symbolists—Stevens is now considered one of the major American poets of the century.”

Thanks to Russell Boyle for the poems.

 Thanks for reading and Have a great Friday!

From my Inbox (U2, drums, kowski, failure)

Time to share a few things from my inbox.  I also have been wanting to participate in Lisa’s “1 Day 1 World Project” which features the 8:00 am hour this week (more here).  During this hour, I enjoyed some Keurig coffee and here is the slideshow I made to go with it (link HERE):

From My Inbox:

First, as many folks know – U2 has been in the news because Apple attached U2’s latest release it to all iTunes accounts by default- (more here) and there were vids going around with young folks were like “U-who?” – and this image for the new iPhone was sent to me:



This U2 image reminded me of my favorite U2 song, New Year’s Day – the long version, which I sent to my oldest brother this weekend – so it was actually in my outbox, but I played it this morning too.

This song is special to me because even though I do not like all of U2’s material – back in 1983 I loved this song from the very first time I heard it.  I still recall that day vividly! My older brother was sitting at the kitchen table – reading The Buffalo News (we were not a Courier-Express family) and he had the large newspaper pages spread wide open.  His breakfast dish was to the side and the radio was on.  He was singing along with the long version of this New Year’s Day and it sounded good.   I was quite young – not yet in high school –  but I paused in the kitchen to feel the music – and this song (the version with the instrumental part at the 3rd minute) will always remind me of that chilly winter day back in early ’83 – and it serves as another example of how I am grateful that my older siblings exposed me to a lot of great music!



Second, some of you know that I am half Polish and proud of it.  An old nickname of mine from the 80’s is “Vet-ski” – and my cousin Kathy still uses it!  Anyhow, someone sent me an email with this “Kowski” tweet from darren rovell about the NFL Kowski’s this weekend:




Third, I enjoyed a small morning laugh with this inbox video of the “Oceans” song, which is a popular song in the Christian community -and actually it has been OVER played all summer!

In this video snippet – watch how the drummer of this band goes off and does his “thang” – just funny:


Fourth, terrier-man shared a potent little post (HERE) where he presented something for all of us to think about:

He writes:

At what point do we suit up and fight the real wars that need to be fought? Banks have devastated the American economy, wiping out trillions of dollars worth of equity amassed over a life time. Fast and packaged food producers kill more Americans every day, through diabetes, hypertension and obesity than Al Queda has killed in the last 15 years. (more here)



Source: Terrierman.com and Huffington post

I have had a huge wake up call this year regarding all food – and not to make any of you feel guilty – but if you have not started thinking about the crap that we are consuming with most packaged food – that has NO NUTRITION - well at least just think about thinking about it – ha!  And without coming down too heavy on you – just keep in mind that little things we do – really do add up to impact our health – and positive change starts by becoming “aware” :)


Lastly, from my inbox – Delancey Place (HERE) shared from a book about comedy from author Mike Thomas, – which had a potent little reminder about the need to fail.  The cast Member Alan Arkin described his appreciation for the Second City Theatre with this:

” …it gave us a place to fail. Which doesn’t exist in this civilization anymore. There is no place to fail anymore. And failing at something is crucial. You don’t learn from anything unless you fail. And we were not only allowed to fail, but almost encouraged to take chances every night onstage.”

Keep in mind that failures, messes, and setbacks are a natural part of life.  Stop beating yourself up over certain things – especially if you have had made mistakes of have had things flop – or if you are kicking yourself for things you know you could have done better – it’s okay. This kind of stuff is just part of a healthy life!  But so often in our culture there is shame and disappointment connected with flops or failures- or we just come down way too hard on ourselves – but all of these things need to be embraced with more GRACE!  Sometimes we let failures and mistakes disproportionately occupy our thoughts and  it robs us of health instead of becoming a catalyst for appreciation and growth.

Also, did you ever notice that for some reason – we humans always like to compare our weaknesses to someone else’s strengths.

So I just want to say be encouraged today.  Choose “what” you rehearse in your head – and let it be to focus on things that give life.  We all have losses and we all have different times where we woulda, coulda, shoulda did things different – I know I wish I could go back to make different choices to a few specific times- but I am here and now!   And with grace I move forward.  I also have learned to modify my expectations – and that is very life giving too, but that is for another post sometime.  :)

I close with some words from Denis Waitley:

“Failure should be our teacher – not our undertaker”

waitley quote about learning form the past

So let’s all enjoy right “now” – right now!

As we start a new day today – as we start a new week  – and actually tomorrow (9/23) we all start a brand new autumn season – so let’s embrace the simple joy that can be found in this very minute.  :)  I know I am.

Peace ~